The keys to desire when you know each other by heart

The real challenge when you've been in a relationship for a long time is to maintain a fulfilling sexuality. How to achieve it? This book is not a guide on how to excite your partner or give him the best orgasm. No, this book tells you how to have good sex with the person you love. Sex therapist Stephen Snyder is one of New York's most prominent couples therapists. Without judgement, with kindness and a touch of humour, he draws on dozens of fascinating couple stories to show us the way. He explains the basics of good sexuality, the hidden rules of desire, and how to establish a "sexuality of the heart". It is normal for the desire to decrease over time. Desire cannot be controlled. The revelation of this book is that you don't have to have desire to have good sex. You have to understand sexual feelings, which is rarely covered in books. Dr. Snyder reviews the main sexual knots (many of which are due to the erotic differences between men and women) and explains how to untie them. In the space of thirty years, he has helped more than 1500 people and couples using the methods that you will read about in this book. Today, wherever you are, they can also help you save your couple's sexuality and ensure a strong bond with your partner, for life. ‘‘ An essential book, a guided tour of what happens when sexuality deserts the couple, and how to revive it. ’’ Dr Susan VAUGHAN Director of the Center for Psychoanalytic Research at Columbia University