
“We have less desire than at the beginning, is that normal? » “Is the frequency of our relationships a good indicator of the health of our relationship? » “Do I have the right not to want to try certain things? » Regularity and duration of relationships, the need to “spice up the routine”… a couple’s sex life seems to be nothing more than a long list of responses to injunctions. Internationally recognized sex therapist, Emily Nagoski invites us in this book to get rid of these norms which are in reality a source of incomprehension and suffering for everyone, and to question our true tastes in matters of intimate life. From terms to use to hindsight when things do not take the turn we would like, from our true tastes to the limits to set, from the analysis of one's own emotional state of mind to the plan of attack to adopt together, Emily Nagoski invites us to deconstruct point by point everything we thought we knew about desire, to finally put an end to diktats, and reconnect with pleasure. A RELAXING AND LIBERATING GUIDE, BECAUSE ALSO IN MATTER OF SEX, EACH COUPLE IS UNIQUE!