Psychology book - I resent you, I love you

No family relationship is the same: there are those who call their mother every day, and those who have moved as far away as possible...In this book, the author invites the reader to attempt an authentic encounter with their parents. Because without authenticity, there is no love possible. Is it really necessary to stir up the past?However, reconciliation cannot ignore the expression of suffering. Wounds need to be acknowledged, misunderstandings explained, anger needs to be expressed and accepted to repair the bond. Reconciliation then arises from mutual empathy.Why settle for a superficial relationship when you can, and this is possible in most cases, (re)create a relationship of intimacy and complicity?